Ipswich Journal: Paul Mason Is One-Third the Man He Used to Be
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Paul Mason in 2012, two years after gastric bypass surgery stripped him of the unofficial title of "the world's fattest man."
IPSWICH,
England — Who knows what the worst moment was for Paul Mason — there
were so many awful milestones, as he grew fatter and fatter — but a good
bet might be when he became too vast to leave his room. To get him to
the hospital for a hernia operation, the local fire department had to
knock down a wall and extricate him with a forklift.
That
was nearly a decade ago, when Mr. Mason weighed about 980 pounds, and
the spectacle made him the object of fascinated horror, a freak-show
exhibit. The British news media, which likes a superlative, appointed
him "the world's fattest man."
Now
the narrative has shifted to one of redemption and second chances. Since
a gastric bypass operation in 2010, Mr. Mason, 52 years old and
6-foot-4, has lost nearly two-thirds of his body weight, putting him at
about 336 pounds — still obese, but within the realm of plausibility. He
is talking about starting a jewelry business.
"My
meals are a lot different now than they used to be," Mr. Mason said
during a recent interview in his one-story apartment in a cheerful
public housing complex here. For one thing, he no longer eats around the
clock. "Food is a necessity, but now I don't let it control my life
anymore," he said.
But the road to a
new life is uphill and paved with sharp objects. When he answered the
door, Mr. Mason did not walk; he glided in an electric wheelchair.
And though Mr. Mason looks perfectly
normal from the chest up, horrible vestiges of his past stick to him,
literally, in the form of a huge mass of loose skin choking him like a
straitjacket. Folds and folds of it encircle his torso and sit on his
lap, like an unwanted package someone has set there; more folds encase
his legs. All told, he reckons, the excess weighs more than 100 pounds.
As he waits to see if anyone will
agree to perform the complex operation to remove the skin, Mr. Mason has
plenty of time to ponder how he got to where he is. He was born in
Ipswich and had a childhood marked by two things, he says: the verbal
and physical abuse of his father, a military policeman turned security
guard; and three years of sexual abuse, starting when he was 6, by a
relative in her 20s who lived in the house and shared his bed. He told
no one until decades later.
After
he left school, Mr. Mason took a job as a postal worker and became
engaged to a woman more than 20 years older than him. "I thought it
would be for life, but she just turned around one day and said, 'No, I
don't want to see you anymore — goodbye,' " he said.
His
father died, and he returned home to care for his arthritic mother, who
was in a wheelchair. "I still had all these things going around in my
head from my childhood," he said. "Food replaced the love I didn't get
from my parents." When he left the Royal Mail in 1986, he said, he
weighed 364 pounds.
Then things
spun out of control. Mr. Mason tried to eat himself into oblivion. He
spent every available penny of his and his mother's social security
checks on food. He stopped paying the mortgage. The bank repossessed
their house, and the council found them a smaller place to live. All the
while, he ate the way a locust eats — indiscriminately, voraciously,
ingesting perhaps 20,000 calories a day. First he could no longer manage
the stairs; then he could no longer get out of his room. He stayed in
bed, on and off, for most of the last decade.
Social
service workers did everything for him, including changing his
incontinence pads. A network of local convenience stores and fast-food
restaurants kept the food coming nonstop — burgers, french fries, fish
and chips, even about $22 worth of chocolate bars a day.
"They didn't deliver bags of crisps," he said of potato chips. "They delivered cartons."
His
life became a cycle: eat, doze, eat, eat, eat. "You didn't sleep a
normal sleep," he said. "You'd be awake most of the night eating and
snacking. You totally forgot about everything else. You lose all your
dignity, all your self-respect. It all goes, and all you focus on is
getting your next fix."
He added, "It was quite a lonely time, really."
He
got infections a lot and was transported to the hospital — first in a
laundry van, then on the back of a truck and finally on the forklift.
For 18 months after a hernia operation in 2003, he lived in the hospital
and in an old people's home — where he was not allowed to leave his
room — while the local government found him a house that could
accommodate all the special equipment he needed.
This article has been revised to reflect the following correction:Correction: February 6, 2013
The headline on an earlier version of this article misstated Paul Mason's current weight relative to what he weighed nearly a decade ago. He is now about one-third, not two-thirds, the weight he was then.
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